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Certain females are tantalizing; they are idolized by men everywhere they go, treated like cherubs, and wanted by every man. However, some are the undeviating contrary. The sole motivation a man would want them is for their center region and when he’s done there, he’s out, never to come back except he’s bored again.

Do not be deceived; two things that would bring a man to you but won’t keep him with you are sex and beauty. They are not just enough; when he’s had enough sex and seen your beautiful face a million times, what’s next?  Some women are extremely beautiful, you could call them a deity but that’s that about them. They are loved from far and wide but reviled when you get to know them.

Most women don’t actually know what would keep their man; they think it’s only about sex and beauty. Well, sex and beauty play a role in every relationship but some things are way more important than those two things. There are a million special things a man can love in a woman, but I bring you eight (8) key things that a guy would relish in a lady. Let’s take a quick look at those eight (8) significant things.


Did you know that a beautiful smile from a lady attracts most men? Well, now you know. There is nothing like an ever-smiling lady; nothing would melt the heart of a man more than a woman who’s generous in her smiling. These smiles are like diamonds, they make the beauty of a woman sparkle. A lady that smiles often is thought by many as one with a good heart.


Some ladies are blessed with this gift, yes, I call it a gift because it’s rare; most women are more into nagging than listening to their man, and those actions of theirs drive men nuts. Being a nagging lady would on tell the man to have a hanky-panky with you without sending you to the altar. Alcohol is a man’s best friend when his lady is one that complains too much he resorts to places like bars and pubs to share his thoughts with himself or prolly friends. But when he has a lady that has a good heart and good listening skills, he’d be home with her rather than in a bar. Men always have issues to overcome and they would cherish a woman who would always be there to listen.


Times change. Gone are those days when men value women that depend on them for everything, definitely not up to the minute man. The contemporary man loves a woman who can pay one or two bills, have a little financial capability but not the one that’s always asking; the type that would ask for everything from A-Z. Show him you too can come up with some goods and he’d value you even more. Just think about an instance he misplaces his job and both of you become inert and unemployed, who will cater for the other?


This is something that’s lacking in many relationships these days, some women are more like lions waiting for the slightest moment to roar and pounce on its victim. Truth is, a respectful woman would win a man’s heart straightforwardness. A woman who wants respect from her man should be ready to give him respect too. As the saying goes, “respect is reciprocal”. But beware, respect doesn’t mean ignorance; like I said in being the man your woman finds prudent, any man who hits you doesn’t rate you.


Every guy loves a lady that can be a good company; some ladies are a total bore, besides sex there is nothing fun about them anymore. If a man doesn’t want to be with you after sex, it is because you don’t know how to build a good company with your man. Try to create that special rapport with your man so when he’s not with you, he’d miss every bit of you.


These days, it’s hard to see an original lady; most of them fake everything about them. Faking your real identity would only keep a man for the short-term, like having a fling with you and not think of building the future with. Once he’s had enough, he’s out. There is nothing like an original woman. You only have to be real and a joy to be with. When a lady is original, a guy would give so many weird reasons why he likes her; that’s because she’s distinctive. You may hear statements like ‘’I just like the way she talks’’. Be original!


Some might say ‘’we are in the 21st century, this doesn’t matter’’ but the truth is there is nothing like a good home-made meal and when it’s prepared by you, your man would even love you more. One funny fact about men is that they don’t joke with their tummy, if you give them good food, they would appreciate you really good. Let’s take a stroll to the university settings, ever wondered why the ladies that cook really tasty meals have so many male friends? The answer is quite simple; be a good chef.


In life setting normally, anyone that’s thankful for everything no matter how little it is is loved by many. Most ladies these days have their eyes on big things that they don’t appreciate the little their men do for them. Every man, I repeat, every man would love and cherish a lady that appreciates everything he does for her no matter how little. If you do this, you’d take a massive part of his heart.

I trust you enjoyed this piece, but note that it’s not just enough to read this; you have to practice it because it’s everyday thing like good life, ha-ha. I wish you the best in your relationship, and don’t forget to subscribe to this blog.


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